Hate is a pretty strong word. We probably shouldn’t use it so casually. Yet I’ll be the first to say something like this: I hate liver and onions; I hate jelly beans; I hate mice; I hate dusting. And while all of those statements hold an element of accuracy, when it comes to Japanese Beetles, I have a whole new level of “intense or passionate dislike”.
I labor for countless hours, weeks, and months each year to improve my flower beds, gardens, and plots (and yes, I see all of those a little differently). I’ve learned the benefit of planting certain companions, which will deter many bugs and pests. I’ve educated myself on soil and compost and pasture poo and such. And no matter how many tricks I have up my sleeve. No matter how hard I work. Regardless of any of my efforts. They still come. And they ravage SOMETHING. I HATE JAPANESE BEETLES!
Recently, I found something else I believe I’m equally as passionate about. I won’t use the word hate (although God uses it a lot and I think I could make a good argument). But I have an intense and passionate dislike of people who don’t know how to be nice. People who use language to sound politically correct (although this has nothing to do with politics) in order to make an excuse for lack of compassion. It’s honestly pretty disgusting.
There are individuals and families all around us who are experiencing devastating loss and fear. They aren’t experiencing something that no one else ever has. But that doesn’t negate or lessen the gravity of their situation. Thankfully, God places a burden on the hearts of some of His people to step up and act with love. Whether it’s the grief of losing a spouse or child or maybe the fear of a terminal diagnosis, we’re called to action and love. Period. No eloquent words will excuse a hard heart.
Maybe we need to pause and consider. Are we being a good neighbor? Are we sensitive to the pain around us? Are we willing to do what’s needed no matter who likes it? Will we even walk alone if that’s necessary?
God, I’m so grateful for those who love no matter what. With love, there’s no place for hate.
Romans 12:9-10 ~ Let love be genuine. Abhor what is evil; hold fast to what is good. Love one another with brotherly affection. Outdo one another in showing honor.